another week over and another one begins!!

Another week over and another week begins!! i wish weekends were longer, i am so fed up with spending my whoe weekedn feelling rubbish because i have spent the whole week running around like an idiot.
Last week was not as bad as i thought it would be so that was one good thing.
people can be so cruel and i have realy learnt whi my firiends are lately i never though that people would use your health against you, i wouldnt care if they moaned about wbout my work or private life but this hurt personaly.
I am still having problems sleeping and it is driving me nuts, i keeep having nightmares and the worst thing is that i close my eyes and think i am not going to wake up, it is trully terrifying and i cant seem to get rid of it. i guess over time it will be easier, who knows.
i need to start making some decisions and keep thinking it is time for me to give up work or at least cut my hours, part of me would give it up tomorrow but the other side of me doesnt want to give in!! decisions decisions!!!
well one week until i go to southhampton and i can only hope they have some answers, i need something to be done, i once had a life! well enough moaning from me.
xxx

bloody colds!!

Well so far new year not going to bad! That was until I got another bloody cold!! Feeling really rough all weekend and now on maximum meds at home!! We will see what tomorrow brings as I have hospital appointment!! Getting really fed up with it all
Now!!
On a more positive note I am finally up to date with my ou work! Finding it harder than I thought but will get there eventually!!
Enough gabbling from me time for bed before another busy week ahead!!!

new year!!

Well another year over!! Not been the best but this year has to be better!!! So whilst I am not really into the whole new years resolution thing there are done things I am gonna change or do!! So here goes my list:
1. Get up every morning and be thankful fir what I have!! Go to bed at night with great thanks for all around me!!
2. Start being a bit more honest about how I really feel!! A smile can hide a thousand troubles but it doesn't make them go away!!
3. Putting myself first!! People are going to have to start seeing me for who I am, I can be no more than I am!!
4.stop hiding how unwell I feel sometimes!! People may look and stare but is using my drugs in public really something to hide!! People cab comment but from now on that's up to them!!!
5. Ask people for help when needed and not struggle on for the sake of it!!
6. Tell my friends and family I love them everyday!!
7. Take extra special time to be there for my best friend and when she's hurting I need to be by her side and we will ride the storm together!!!

Well that's a start!! Now for the normal onei will;
1 lose two stone
2. Start saving (not sure what for but we will see)
3. Finish open university course
Etc etc etc

Now think the first thing I need to do is tidy my bedroom!! This could take me till next new year!!!!

an old letter!!

Searching through the computer today and i found this::

Kate i am poorly honey, I am not sure how much I have let on but I have felt rough for days and nothing is working, I am of to hospital soon as much as I don’t want to but before that I want to tell you a few things just incase I never get the chance.

As I sit here fighting for breath, I seem to have completely lost all my brains so sorry if this makes no sense.

Well I guess the most important thing I want to say thanks, you have always been there for me and I love you with all my heart. You are my best friend the whole world, we have been through so much together and I never want to leave you. You have always been there for me through thick and thin and I want to say I will never be able to thank you enough!!

Some things I want you to promise me, if this all goes tits up and the worst happens don’t be sad you can cry but don’t be sad we always knew my life would be short but I have had a good one, it has had its ups and downs and definitely had its trials and tribulations. In a way if this is it maybe its better to go out on a high, I have had a brilliant couple of weeks and felt well, so at least not all suffering. I can’t say I am not angry I think why me all the time, but this is not a time for that, I don’t have the energy to be honest!!

These are a couple of things I need you to do for me.

My family, I know this is not your job but tell them how much I love them and how I will miss them terribly!! All the paper work etc they will need is in my room. Tell Pete how much he means to me and how much I love him!!

Granddad, please make sure someone takes care of him! As much of a nightmare he can be I love him and worry about him all the time!! I will miss him and tell Uncle Stephen he has to look after him and take care of him

Now for the morbid stuff I guess

Funeral, please make it a celebration of the good life I have had no black and very simple, not to religious and no smelly flowers please!! I will sneeze all the way to heaven!! People can give donations I guess maybe to asthma UK, they need to do something to stop people living with this awful disease!!! If you can get Zach Efron there that will be great!!!! As or music, I don’t mind something cheerful you can always play mamma mia or high school musical, may not be appropriate so will leave it to you,  As for afterwards whatever you like but remember I will be watching so no locking yourself in the toilet and crying, talk to me I will always be there for you!!

Well I guess that is all I wanted to say and fingers crossed you will never have to read this and once again I will beat it again, I am tired this time honey and cant carry on like this it is hard work!!

One last thing, I once heard someone say, life is not measured in the breaths you take but in the moments that take your breath away!! This is so true, never forget this live life to the full and never regret anything!!

Please if I don’t, remember I am always here for you and will be with you always, I will be up there having a party with my mum and your dad and all our families so I am not scared just sad that it had to be this way!!!

Well honey of to hospital now, so fingers crossed that they can do medical miracle!!!

I love you always and forever and my life would have been nothing with out you!!!

Your bestest friend.

I remember briefly writing this many months ago when i was so poorly and honestly thought me time was up!!! Thank goodness it wasnt and i am still around, this made me think how bad things have been! 

Why i am i putting tit on here, i have no idea i just think it shows how ill i have felt and com eout the other side, i guess i  need to look at this and be thankfull i am still here but also think that life can be easily taken away so i think the moral of this is live every moment like it is your last!!!!

Floods of tears all becauseof a song!!!!

Why is you can be driving home from work when suddenly a song comes on the radio and you realise tears are flowing down your cheeks and all for no aparent reason!! This is exactly what happened to me today on my way home from shopping. A sugarbabes song called changes came on the radio and i guess it just related to everything that is going on in my world at the moment!! Nothing is ever how you plan it to be and things can change over night so people should be thankfull or what they have got although i have to agree it is never enough and we allways want more
This week has been another busy week at work, rushing around not getting a lot done most of the week but then again i have spent lots of time doing things i enjoy with our residents so its just paper work to catch up on. Once again i have got to the end of the week and i am absolutely exhausted to a point of collapse!! I wish i could just convince myself to give up ceratin things but i am stubborn cow and feel like if i cut my hours then i am letting myself and others down!! I have realised this week how much i have given up allready i never go out anymore as i am just to tired by the evenings.
I did force myself to walk into town one afternoon after work but felt really rubbish and out of breath half way and then had to struggle back!!  I am sure life used to be easier then this!!!
The cold weather has hit hard which doesnt help anyonw i guess but i particularly hate the cold and so does my body.
Well at least i have the weekend of but yet again what a waste of a weekend as  i am gonna spend it sitting on the sofa or inbed trying to regain some strength for another week. I am starting to feel like i am existing rather than living lets hope things can get a bit better!!
Enough of my mubling on now of to culr up on my sofa for a little sleep me thinks!!!!!

Sarah
xxxxxxx

should be grateful for those around me!!

Today I realised just how lucky I am!! Firstly I have so many people around me that care and want to help! I just need to start using them I think!!
Secondly I have the most fabulous medical team around me thAt bend over backwards to help and support me!!
Have decided that this week I am going to have to take it easy!! Either that or I will end up in hospital which is not an option!! I just hope people will understand and let me do what I can!!

bad ending to a bad week!!

Finally managed to write my open university assignemnt and it was acutally easier than  thought i am not sure why i was putting it of!! well i say that but we will see when i get the marks!!
Took grandad to the opticians today and that was funny, he obviously hasnt been to a town for years and he was quite funny. managed to get his glasses sorted and i had my eyes tested, one part of my body that is fine as didnt need new glasses which is one good thing.
Got home and again fainted, very bizarre feeling and it seems my body can not cope with doing anything at the moment, i thought i felt better yesterday but very short lived. Aday on the sofa for me  and doing not a lot and tomorrow i am not even getting out of bed as i need to go backto work on monday and for that i need to be well.
Having an extra day ofthis week has made a lot of differernece and it wasnt until i started to rest that i realised how exhausted i am!! thank god i have such a caring and understanding manager and work collegues, i hate not being able to keep up and feel like i am letting people down all the time!!

To sum up this week has been horrible full or tears, fears and me being terrified that i cant cope. partly this is because i feel so frustrated with myself  for not being able to keep up and partly angry that the future seems so bad! at one point in the week i couldof quite easily just give up and walk away from it all!!i then hit reality fast and realised that this didnt just effect me but the people around me, my close friendy and family who have stood by me through thick and thin must also be as terrified of what the future holds and i was failing to see this. For there sack i cant give up and have to carry on.
Inloads of pain tonight and again coughing up blood so i think time for some strong painkillers and rest i think!! more positive sarah will be back soon

xxx